Faith-rooted & evidence-based premarital utility

Most couples say yes with unspoken assumptions still between them. That is where marriages break.

Misaq is a private, double-blind diagnostic for serious Muslim couples. You each answer the questions that actually matter — money, in-laws, roles, conflict, and faith — independently. Then you get the Misaq Alignment Report: visual compatibility across all five pillars, and word-for-word scripts for the hard talks — before you decide. Make the most important decision of your life with clearer information and less hidden risk.

Take the 15-second gut check ↓
100% private & confidential Double-blind — no answers revealed early Saves $500+ vs traditional coaching
The outcome

This is what clarity looks like.

Joint alignment report · sample

Sara & Omar

Weighted alignment70%
Financial philosophySolid82%
In-laws & family boundariesPriority46%
Roles & householdSolid74%
Conflict & temperamentWorkable58%
Faith & valuesStrong91%

Every gap unlocks with a word-for-word script for the conversation.

Hanna, testimonial author
The questions are remarkable. They go way beyond the usual surface-level 'what are you looking for in a spouse?' questions and get into the things that actually matter once you're building a life together. It's incredibly insightful, and I think this could save people from a lot of difficult conversations after marriage by encouraging them to have the right conversations before it. Really well done. I hope more people use it.
Hanna
Misaq Alignment Check user
A 15-second gut check

You have expectations you've never said out loud.

Not the big obvious ones. The quiet, specific assumptions that silently decide a marriage. Let's surface just one, honestly.

15 seconds · no sign-up required · 100% private
The blindspot

You can't ask about everything over dinner.

Mahr expectations. Debt. Where his mother fits in. Who cooks, who earns, how anger gets handled. The questions that decide a marriage are exactly the ones that feel impossible to ask out loud — so they stay unspoken until after the nikah. The Misaq Alignment Report is the way out: visual compatibility across all five pillars, plus a word-for-word script for every hard conversation it surfaces.

How it works

Three steps to real clarity.

Step 1

Invite your prospect

Buy one $49 CAD pass. We email a private, respectful invitation link to your prospective spouse — with wording that frames it as the mature step it is.

Step 2

Answer privately

You each complete a 15-minute diagnostic on your own. Your answers are locked and hidden until both of you have finished — so no one's answer sways the other.

Step 3

Get your joint report

Unlock one clear report: visual compatibility across the five pillars, where the friction is, and word-for-word scripts to talk through the hard parts with wisdom, not guesswork.

Two questionnaires

Tuned to where you actually are.

At checkout you choose your stage, and both of you get the matching question set — so nothing feels too soon, and nothing important gets skipped.

Early conversations

You've recently met and want to see whether you actually align.

Serious about each other

You're considering each other as a spouse and need the harder questions.

See it in action

How double-blind works.

Answer a real sample question, then flip on your partner's view to see how alignment is scored — without either of you seeing the other early.

Financial philosophy · sample question

How do you expect family finances and debt to be managed in the first three years of marriage?

Simulate partner's view
Your answerJoint account for bills, separate personal savings 🔒
Partner's answerFully pooled income 🔒
Moderate frictionA discussion prompt has been generated for you both.
What we check

The five things marriages actually turn on.

Financial philosophy

Dowry expectations, dual income, debt, and supporting family — where money will quietly make or break things.

In-laws & family boundaries

Living arrangements, how involved parents get in disputes, and whose family, when.

Roles & household

Division of labour, career aspirations, and how you'll raise children.

Conflict & temperament

How each of you handles anger, stress, and disagreement before it escalates.

Faith & values

Religious practice, moral boundaries, lifestyle priorities, and jurisprudence preferences.

One pass, both of you

For the clarity most couples never get.

$49 CAD one-time
Covers both partners. No subscription.
  • Dual double-blind diagnostic access
  • A Misaq Alignment Report with visual compatibility across all 5 pillars, saveable as a PDF
  • Word-for-word scripts for 40+ difficult conversations
  • Lifetime access to your joint results
Misaq Alignment Check

$49 CAD total, once. Private and asynchronous. An honest report in minutes, not months.

Traditional premarital therapy

$175 per session, 3-5 sessions ($525+). Scheduling, waitlists, and the therapy stigma.

Questions

Good to know.

Before the nikah

Find out now, not after.

The hardest conversations are the ones no one has before they commit. Have them here, with clarity.

Where are you two right now?

We tailor the questions to your stage, so nothing feels too soon.